Breath
Observation Meditation
Many
shy away from things like yoga and meditation fearing
that it is some form of Eastern "non-Christian" religious
practice. Put in western terms, these are nothing more
than stretching and relaxing exercises and do not need
to have ties to any religion or philosophy. When we
practice any form of relaxation, biofeedback or meditation,
we can learn better to relax, reduce pain or stress,
break out of old habits and patterns, and free the mind
to allow you to reach your potential
In
a time when our minds are filled with distractions,
and so many diversion vying for our attention, it is
important that we learn to calm and clear the mind.
By following the practice of breath observation we can
become more "mindful" and free ourselves from becoming
so easily distracted from the things that really matter
most in life.
To
use your breathing to nurture mindfulness, just tune
in to the feeling of it. . . the feeling of the breath
coming into your body and the feeling of the breath
leaving your body. That's all. Just feeling the breath.
Breathing and knowing your breathing. This doesn't mean
deep breathing or forcing your breathing, or trying
to feel something special, or wondering whether you're
doing it right. It doesn't mean thinking about your
breathing, either. It's just a bare bones awareness
of the breath moving in and the breath moving out.
It
doesn't have to be for a long time at any one stretch.
Using the breath to bring us back to the present moment
takes no time at all, only a shift in attention. But
great adventures await you if you give yourself a little
time to string moments of awareness together, breath
by breath, moment to moment.
Begin
the Breath Observation Meditation by sitting in a comfortable
position with your back straight and your eyes lightly
closed. Loosen any tight clothing. Focus your attention
on your breathing, and follow the contours of the cycle
through inhalation and exhalation, noting, if you can,
the points at which one phase changes into the other.
Try staying with one full in-breath as it come in, one
full out-breath as it goes out, keeping your mind open
and free for just this moment, just this breath. Abandon
all ideas of getting somewhere or having anything happen.
Just keep returning to the breath when the mind wanders,
stringing moments of mindfulness together, breath by
breath.
Do
this for five minutes once a day. Work up to 45 minutes
per day. Your goal is simply to keep your attention
on the breath cycle and observe. It may speed up or
slow down; it may get deeper or more shallow; it may
seem to stop for a time. Whatever happens with your
breathing, innocently observe it, without anticipating
or resisting any changes.
You
will find that at times your attention drifts away from
your breath and goes to a thought in the mind, some
sensation in the body, a sound in the environment or
some emotional feeling. Whenever you notice that you
are not observing the breath, gently bring your attention
back to your breathing.
During
the practice of meditation, you will have one of three
experiences. All of which are correct.
- You
may feel bored or restless and your mind may become
filled with thoughts. This is an indication that
deep-rooted stresses and emotions are being released
from your system. By effortlessly continuing with
meditation, you will facilitate the removal of these
impurities from your mind and body.
- You
may fall asleep. If you fall asleep in meditation,
it is an indication that you need more rest during
other times of the day.
- You
may slip into the gap. When the breath becomes very
settled and refined, you slip into the gap between
thoughts, beyond sound, and beyond breath.
R
ecommended Reading: Wherever You Go, There You
Are, by Jon Kabat-Zinn . |